And to the guy who thinks Hungarian women take themselves too seriously: I suppose unlike the monosyllabic British yobs, who spend most of their lives in front of a television set, watching one sport or another in a drunken stupor and have no idea of how to integrate themselves into a functioning family.
If that's your idea of being 'relaxed and cool' then you are lacking in substance, just like so many of your 'soulmates' and then you are a 'persona non grata' in this land.
A good looking Hungarian woman who speaks English, German, or French is quite a find, and she knows it. That means they are used to recieving flowers before being taken to the theater and wined and dined afterwards by a nice smelling young man who goes to the bathroom every fifteen minutes to preen in front of a mirror to ensure that he still looks nice and then after two dates he's allowed to get to home base, and then they get married, two years later divorced, and that's where you walk in. You did not go to the same school system, did not serve in the same army, did not grope her same girlfriends in highschool, nor belong to the same Young Communist league. That doesn't mean that meeting the Hungarian girl of your dreams is going to be easy. And taking her out to nice restaurants that normally cost you an arm and a leg, but now leave you a financial quadripelegic.
She recieves daily faxes from suitors the world over and she knows the exact opening hours and addresses of the Chinese restaurants that serve imported lobster Szechuan style, which goes extremely well with a light, yet fruity French white wine, slightly chilled, and remember to tip the waiter 10%. You are different than all the nice smelling young men she's known. Nor has she been busted for possession by the same cop in Alabama, dropped out of the same University, belonged to your voodoo cult, nor ever watched The Brady Bunch. You can't tell a Hungarian girl that you are a tourist. And while the local Joe gets to home after two dates, you will have to wait longer. You will have to compose yourself with a lot more chilvalry and charm than Western girls demand. You compliment her looks, her clothes, ask attentively about her day at work. At the same time, all this hoopla is designed to get you a few old fashioned rewards.
So, get yourself a great and real American girl (obviously that's what you must like) and get laid.
Hopefully you won't have to put into it any effort and it won't cost you anything.
There is always going to be a conflict between east and west. Treat her like a princess and your rewards will be great(best fuck i have ever had). being an American engaged to a wonderful Hungarian woman, and having met her friends in Budapest while on holiday there, there are some differences but not a lot of major ones from my observations.First you should look and criticize your own back yard before trashing people you don't know shit about.You must be writing this in pain of blue balls, as you couldn't get laid by a Hungarian girl.Hungarian | Dec 31, 2005 don't know anything about hungurian girls...i agree on the lack of any cultural basis of western girls..but, indeed, i lived for 4 years with a russian girl, and i know very well russian chicks.they are sophisticated.they are sensible.they are extremely charming and educated.yes, they are greedy like hell, u'll never know if they love you o your wallet..yes they are unfaithful and unreliable..hardest time in my life..i had many foreigner girls before, so i made the mistake to believe i could cope with them..only afterwards that i could realize how lucky we are with italian girls... And yes I think they do wish to be treated like a princess; But who does'nt??leo | Jan 24, 2006 Some of that stuff he said was correct, like entering retail outlets first as you are the one paying. Girls have to be choosy, as when the commit they give their body/mind and their future child.
" Yes, Budapest gets the juices flowing, and why not? Ever since Zsazsa Gabor first uttered "Dahhling..." and Cicciolina first sprayed a front row in Turin, foreign men have felt an irresistable attraction to Hungarian women. They are among God's loveliest critters, scampering merrily around the Danube basin clad in tiny bikinis, clinging halter tops, and those wonderful high heeled shoes known in other parts of the world as "fuck-me pumps." If you are just traveling around Hungary or staying for a while, there are a few things you should know about dating Hungarian women. I have known people who had a perfectly happy, if somewhat shallow, relationship with absolutely no intelligible communication between them for months at a time. Otherwise you will have to speak Hungarian or find a Hungarian who speaks something you understand.